☶ CUDDLOG

How Can You Stop Saying ‘Yes’ Or ‘Maybe’ When You Really Don’t Mean It?

Sometimes when we have to answer a question or give a response, the thought of giving certain answers is scary. It's like standing in front of an unfamiliar body of deep water, afraid to step in out of fear of what might happen. Will we drown? Will we take someone else down with us? Am … Continue reading How Can You Stop Saying ‘Yes’ Or ‘Maybe’ When You Really Don’t Mean It?

On Self-Reflection, Sitting With The Shadow And Why It's A Gift

Simone, the teacher I had in sixth grade, was a godsend. She was everything all of us dreaded leaving behind as we marched off to middle school. She was incredibly bubbly but soft and loving at the same time, she rarely yelled and did yoga in gym class, she called us her "cutie-patooties", and she … Continue reading On Self-Reflection, Sitting With The Shadow And Why It's A Gift

The Perfect Sleep & Cuddle Position For Couples Who Get That Unwanted "Claustrophobic" Feeling

If you tend to cuddle your loved one before sleeping and you feel a bit of resentment for turning your backs to each other when it gets too hot or stuffy, I have the solution for you! Try out the "concave" position.

You Always Have The Choice To Act Out Of Love Instead

As we cozy into Christmas and reel in the final month of 2019, how fast I realise this year has gone by. It was prophesied wide and far that 2019 would be a year full of introspection, change, and new ways of living. As if we don't promise these things to ourselves every year, right? … Continue reading You Always Have The Choice To Act Out Of Love Instead

Ghosting Culture Seems To Be On The Rise, But How Can We Rise Above It?

Studies on "ghosting" in relationships published from 2012-2018 in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships uncovered some findings  which may help us understand the notorious practice better - why it happens and when it's most likely to happen... but they still have not uncovered whether it's happening more. Unless you yourself have been hiding … Continue reading Ghosting Culture Seems To Be On The Rise, But How Can We Rise Above It?

Pro Tips: The Red Flags Of Client Behaviour You Need To Be On The Lookout For

As much as you'd like to have optimism about the kinds of folks you'll be dealing with as a professional cuddler, sometimes you do need to err on the pessimistic side for your own safety.

Are You A “Dog” Or A “Cat” When It Comes To Touch?

The traits of animals can totally help us understand where we are with our boundaries and needs for touch.

Cuddles In The News! ‘Men Only’ Cuddling Group In Philadelphia Helps Its Participants Overcome Trauma

This article which was shared on the Cuddle Comfort forum prompted me to bring my website back up today, just so I can share this with anyone who happens to check up on Cuddlosophy. This type of awareness is important. In the age of #MeToo, it's important to remember that men are also victims of … Continue reading Cuddles In The News! ‘Men Only’ Cuddling Group In Philadelphia Helps Its Participants Overcome Trauma

November Is Remembrance Month: Veterans Get Cuddles At $20 Per Hour!

Just a little reminder that 'poppy season' is among us, and Remembrance Day is less than 2 weeks away. Make sure to say thank you to any veterans or active military personnel you may otherwise pass by during the month of November - it can really make their day if even one person reaches out! … Continue reading November Is Remembrance Month: Veterans Get Cuddles At $20 Per Hour!

What Are The Thoughts I Have During A Session?

"Dear Cuddlee, I hope I am not cutting off your arm's blood circulation" and other hand-picked tales.